{Words of Wisdom} Passion

Martha Stewart gave the commencement speech at the University of Phoenix in Arizona. She said:

 I'm not linked to this university in any way, just a huge fan of Martha Stewart. 

Here is a little video from the event:

Words of Wisdom

After seeing many weddings of my friends, family, celebrities, on blogs where ever there is always one thing that ties them all together - This is YOUR special day and YOUR memories forever. So make sure that when that day comes you are having the wedding YOU TWO wanted. Of course there are compromises, forces of nature,  things that may throw you thru a loop, or people who you may disappoint, but please make sure you have a GREAT time at your wedding, no matter what. Don't let those negative nancies, naysayers, or people who force their opinions onto you control your wedding. Step away from all of it and really think "is that what we want?" As your wedding planner I can help guide you, but it's ultimately your decision. So with all that said, I will keep this post going as an open thread where I will continue to post inspirational quotes of others to help remind you that this IS YOUR DAY, ENJOY IT!

"You don’t need a reason to explain anything about your wedding day decor, fashion, music, etc. Go ahead! Use burlap and masons and take pictures in front of a barn, or dance the night away at your chandelier-lit ballroom black tie affair, or listen to the tunes of a steel drum band for your simple seaside ceremony followed by a grand exit surrounded by sparklers… It is your day – something that may very well exemplify who the two of you are as a couple… or may come out of left field and just be a pretty party full of things you two just happen to like. Always take the inspiration and opinions you come across with a tiny grain of salt, and remember that when it’s all said and done, as long as the two of you said “I do”, the rest will remain just lovely little details. And even if you include no details at all, as long as you have each other, the rest really isn’t important, is it?" Jacin of Lovely little details

Perfect words of wisdom from Stacie Francombe, Founder, Editor-In-Chief of Get Married magazine: "Planning can be stressful, but at the end of the aisle and wedding day, it's ultimately about the love you share for one another."

"Weddings should be about you as a couple, don’t have the wedding your sister or your best friend had, have the wedding YOU want…………..do things your way!! Create the wedding you want, not the wedding you’re told to have!" Kelly of boho wedding blog

Martha Stewart Weddings Fall 2011 Wedding Dresses

Fourteen top designers debut their most showstopping new gowns and give great words of wisdom! 

Who is your favorite? Read more about this article here

Oscar de la Renta's Words of Wisdom: Try on as many dresses as you can, and don't limit yourself to one silhouette

Vera Wang's Words of Wisdom: "Stay true to yourself -- to your taste and what works for your body," she says. "My ideal client is a woman who really knows who she is and who she wants to be."

Monique Lhuillier's Words of Wisdom: Don't trust a picture -- ever. "The only way you'll know what looks best on you is to try it on," she says. "A gown could seem great on paper, but until it's on your body, you won't really know."

Amsale Aberra's Words of Wisdom: The ideal gown reflects a bride's personality, she says. "Think about what you wear every day -- are you classic? Avant-garde? -- and go from there."

Tom Mora for J.Crew Words of Wisdom: Take a chance.

Carolina Herrera's Words of Wisdom: Herrera is adamant about making important decisions alone. "Go dress shopping by yourself," she says. "A lot of opinions will only confuse you, and at the end of the day, it's only yours that matters."

Badgley Mischka's Words of Wisdom: "A good fit is so important," says Mischka. "If it suits you perfectly, even a basic gown can look incredible."

Georgina Chapman and Keren Craig for Marchesa Words of Wisdom: When choosing a gown, go with something that highlights the features you like most. "If you don't feel completely comfortable, you are simply not going to look your best," Chapman says.

Lela Rose's Words of Wisdom: "A lot of women come in and choose something off the rack because they don't want to wear a 'wedding gown,'" says Rose. "But why not? You're getting married -- it's the one time when you can really go for it."

Angel Sanchez's Words of Wisdom: "When you find 'the dress,' you'll know. If you don't feel an instant chemistry when you look in the mirror, don't buy it!"

Lazaro Perez for Lazaro Words of Wisdom: Embrace the spotlight, advises Perez. "If you're proud of the way you look in your dress, why not flaunt it?"

Reem Acra's Words of Wisdom: Hard as it may be, try to avoid trends, says Acra. "Years from now, you don't want your children to ask, 'What were you thinking?' Your wedding look should never go out of fashion."